RETAINING SELF HAPPINESS

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

Life the say is never a bed of rose neither i s it the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when U feel like the world is just too heavy, You look around and find people who continued to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into your mind like bubbles from nowhere "How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life? Then You pause and observed for a while, You just cant figure it out.I've come to let you let understand that HAPPINESS can only  come when you start to work on a place called YOURSELF

So, how does one become genuinely happy?  The first step is to learn to LOVE yourself. Love yourself by thyself

How is this possibile ? "loving means accepting". love oneself means to accept that you are not a perfect being, but behind the imperfections must lie a great ounce of courage to be able to discover ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from our mistakes.This is a rudiment you must surely take to cognizance in order to keep your life in a sound happiness.

Genuine happiness also pertains to contentment. When you are contented with the job you have, the way you look, with your family, your friends, the place you live in and all the things you have now. Truly you will surely derived joy that will strengthen your life.

When we discover a small start somewhere from within, that small start will eventually lead to something else, and to something else. But if you keep questioning life as if it has never done you any good, you will never be able to find genuine happiness.

I believe that life is about finding out about right and wrong, trying and failing, wining and losing. These are things that happen as often as you inhale and exhale. Failure, in one's life has become as abundant and necessary as air. But this should not hinder us from becoming happy. In spite of  all these, you can still be genuinely happy.

Every time you exert effort to improve the quality of life and your being, whether it is cleaning up your room, helping a friend, taking care of your sick dog, fail on board exams and trying again, life will always gives you equivalent points for that.

Imagine life as a big score board,your life is your own dashboard. Every time you take a step forward, you make scoring points. It will be nice to look at that board at the end of each effort  and endeavour you make, then  tell yourself "I got a point today, am glad I gave it a shot " instead of looking at it all blank and murmur in a demoralized manner " I didnt even hit a score today. I wish I had the guts to try out. I shouldn't have tried, would have just walk away.

Genuine happiness isn't about driving the hottest  luxurious automobile nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest pay, or beating the sales quota. Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life doesn't always go to the fastest, the strongest, the bravest or not even the best. So, how do you become genuinely happy? Every one has his own definition of happiness . Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much best selling books as possible. Happiness for a basketball rookie may mean getting the rookie of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success. So, really now, how do we become genuinely happy? Simple. You dont have to have the best things in this world. Its about doing and making the best out of every single thing. When you find yourself smiling at your own mistake and telling your self Oh !, I'll do better next time,you carry with you a flame of strong will power to persevere that may spread out like a brush fire. You possess a willingness to stand up again and try  that will make you a genuinely happy person.

When you learn to accept yourself and your own faults. You pass the first step  in the project of how to become genuinely happy.For as long as you know how to accept others, you will also be accepted. For as long as you love and know how to love, you will receive love in ten folds back.

Again, throw me that same question ìhow to become genuinely happy? I'll refer you to this strong quote saying "laughter is the best medicine of life ache and pains"

What most of us don't know is that the best kind of laughter is the laughter over self cos then you don't just become genuinely happy, you become FREE !

 

TRUST THIS MISSIVE MEETS YOU WELL, HAVE A SPLENDID WEEK !