FOCUS on POSSIBILITIES not PROBLEMS

If you are focusing on PROBLEMS you will see MORE PROBLEMS.

If you focus on possibilities you will see MORE OPPORTUNITIES.

So FOCUS on the possibilities and be READY for incoming opportunities.

Don't be dismayed of what could go wrong, 

but start getting excited about what could go RIGHT!

AIM HIGH. BELIEVE BIG.

It is NEVER crowded at the top.

Maybe not right now.

Maybe not tomorrow.

But in the END you will WIN.

Because you REFUSE to settle for anything ELSE definitely not the LESS. It can only get better 🙏🙏🌀

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L.I.F.E

Life is  naturally a  mystery, like a chocolate box u neither know what  you are gonna get,nor what next it brings on your table.

Even the life we live is not guarantee cos u arent promised tommorow ...

Life can be funny, life can be cruel, life can be rosy, can as well be a hard knock;
But in every ups and down, you learn lessons that makes you stronger.
Which ever way it delivers to you, never perceive it on a negative vibes, rather approach with a positive state of mind.

The way u respond to life determines how better or worst your experience to life becomes.
Always take  time to be kind.,even  when you're suffering with your own pain.
 Don't assume that someone else has it easier than you. You never know the battles someone else is fighting cos everybody is definitely fighting a battle.

Your life is majorly what's happening to you and how you are responsible to it,
Life is reality, life is equally responsibility..
Your definition of life is directly proportional to your approach to it..

Never judge people if you've not been half of what they've been through, u may not fathom the reasons beyond their actions,

Life could be personal cos everybody is definitely running their own race in their own personal way,

We only live once but if lived right, once is enough..

Life is your goal, life is your vision and if you can see it, it's your pathway to destiny.

Live the life you love and love the life you live cos where there's love there's live..

Love all,trust a few and do wrong to none.

#May_you_live_all_the_days_of_your_life
#SPLENDY_vibes✊👌
#SPLENDYxclusive🌀

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FAILURE X SUCCESS

FAILURE X SUCCESS

Failure is the inevitable result of an accumulation of poor thinking and poor choices.  Failure is nothing more than a few errors in judgment repeated every day.

What do you think when you hear the word failure? You probably are thinking that you’re not good enough and that you should give up.

While failure can involve those thoughts and emotions, failure can also make us stronger or wiser. A simple definition of failure is: An act or instance of failing or proving unsuccessful; lack of success.

When I think of this definition of failure, I’m reminded of Thomas Edison, the inventor of the light bulb. While there are many conflicting stories of how many times Edison “failed” at inventing the electric light bulb, most agree it was in the thousands before he found the right combination of materials.

One of Edison’s most famous quotes is, “I have not failed. I’ve just found 10,000 ways that won’t work. I am not discouraged because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward.”  If you adopt this same attitude, you’ll overcome your feelings of failure and be able to see your dreams and desires come to fruition.

Robert Schuller stated these famous words, “Failure doesn’t mean you’re a failure; it just means you haven’t succeeded yet.”  Henry Ford said, “Failure is only the opportunity to begin again more intelligently.”

When you consider those words from these wise and successful people, you’ll truly begin to understand the power of failure.  The truth is, you only fail when you give up! When you keep trying until you’ve found the answer or the solution, you’re successful.  You’d never say Thomas Edison, Robert Schuller or Henry Ford were failures would you? Sure, they were unsuccessful many, many times, but they didn’t give up until they found the answer, the right procedure or the right materials to solve their dilemma.

In case those quotes weren’t enough to make you believe failure has a positive power and strength, here are some more you might relate to:

“Failure is an event, never a person.” – William D. Brown. The next time you try your hand at something and don’t achieve the desired result immediately, remember failure is an event; it’s not you.

Bill Cosby also said it well when he said, “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”  If you’re trying to please everyone, you can’t possibly succeed!

“Never confuse a single defeat with final defeat.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald

“You can’t have any successes until you can accept failures.” – George Cukor

Just because you’ve failed once, twice or 10,000 times at something, it doesn’t mean you’re a failure. You only fail when you stop trying.

Still not convinced? How about this:

“You always pass failure on your way to success.” – Mickey Rooney. What do these words mean to you? No matter what you’re trying to succeed at, whether it’s a sport, project, career, invention, or at school, there will be times when you don’t succeed. But you mustn’t let that stop you from reaching your goals, dreams, and desires.

The common thread among all these famous people and their wise words is the same. You can’t have success without failure. Never give up and never stop trying. 

Failure Is the Seed of Growth and Success

It’s no secret that our worst fear is often failure. But what if failure was actually a good thing?

“Failure is success in progress,” Albert Einstein once said.

Failure creates extraordinary change.

Failure can act as a seed for two things: a road to despair or a springboard to growth. What grows out of the initial failure is entirely up to the person who “failed.”

It’s easy to become downtrodden and lose motivation when things don’t go as planned. Instead, use the failure as a mechanism to reset your perspective, make a mental change or embark on a new, much-needed direction.

Failure is necessary to shake things up. Otherwise, we would coast along comfortably but we wouldn’t make any quantum leaps

Failure builds tough skin.

Failure has an effect similar to a calloused heal. It’s the protective layer we acquire from going around the block a few times and hitting a few bumps. Left soft and unprotected, we easily become injured. Failure builds a thick skin that can help anyone enter the big leagues without fear.

Failure builds tough skin.

Failure has an effect similar to a calloused heal. It’s the protective layer we acquire from going around the block a few times and hitting a few bumps. Left soft and unprotected, we easily become injured. Failure builds a thick skin that can help anyone enter the big leagues without fear.

Failure keeps the ego in check.

Remaining down to earth and honest is a challenge in this present dispensation or today’s world. Its very easy to get swell-headed if one experience constant success.Failure humbles us when we so desperately need to be humbled. It helps us remember where we came from and keeps us in check.

Failure creates  remarkable moments.

Failure creates the moment when something is finally seen, found or understood in a way like never before.

It’s just like solving a complicated math problem. It’s tough to understand at first, but walk away for a moment and, suddenly, something clicks. The answer just comes out of nowhere.

But it’s not really coming from “nowhere.” It comes from a buildup within our minds as the constricting thoughts of failure and fear expand. The expansion results in an explosive energy that breaks us out of constriction and into a highly energetic, creative state when things become clear and new insight is gained.

Failure propels growth 

Failure prepares us for what lies ahead.In life times we come across things we didn’t know they needed to know almost every day. Failures catalyze much of this knowledge because they are unexpected. How else do we learn what we don’t know we need to know? It’s never something that can be planned.

There is power in failure, you just have to give yourself a chance.Its normal to feel bad when you fail at some spot but remember "Challenges are gifts that force us to search for a new center of gravity. Don’t fight them. Just find a new way to stand even if you fail” Use the failure as a mechanism to reset your perspective, make a mental change and embark on a much needed new direction.

Keep trying, keep failing and soon you’ll find true success!

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INSPIRATION IN PLANNING

The word "PLAN" can be defined as a set of intended actions through which one expects to achieve a goal.

It is in turn a list of steps with timing and resources, used to achieve an objective to do something. 

Every anticipated goal can only be achieved through a well defined plan.

The process of thinking about and organizing the activities required to achieve a desired goal is referred as PLANNING. It involves the creation and maintenance of a plan and as well called FORETHOUGHT.

Its obvious that one of vital key for success is planning because if you don't have a plan for your life, you will just end up falling to someone else plan.

Success does not just happen, its being planned for.

Planning pillars your confidence towards achieving your desire goal.

It sets a platform for your perception to be guided in a proper perspective confidently for your targeted goal.

INSPIRATION OF PLANNING

Planning  will personally make you even more creative for your success.

Planning helps you to picture the future into the present so that you can do something about it now

Proper planning creates an avenue for a proper preparation which saves you from an unhealthy performance.

Knowing fully well that a goal without a plan is just a wish so when its obvious that the goals can't be reached, don't adjust the goals rather you restrategize with planning and adjust the action steps.

Sometimes, we need to stop analyzing the past and start planning the future because planning is everything and tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today.

Get up earlier and take some time to plan your day. Every extra minute you spend planning will add more time and power to your life.Goodluck will definitely be the result of a proper planning.

If you must live the life of your dream it must be equipped with proper planning, the sooner you begin planning your life, the quicker and speedy you propel to live the life you dream of.

Do you have a plan? Always have a plan and believe it because nothing happens by accident.

Channel all your worries, revert them all to become strategic thinking and planning.

Strategic planning will help you uncover your available options, set priorities for them, and define the methods to achieve them.

Never forget that good planning without good working is nothing.Plan your work and work your plan.

You can spend your whole life planning. But once you’re ready, get out there and start a proactive doing.

Always set  your intentions right, people who plan are well great achievers.The man who is prepared has his battle half fought and his weapon of success is PLANNING.

Great fortune is what happens when opportunity meets with planning and the  backbone of success is hard work, determination, good planning, and perseverance.

 A clear vision, backed by definite plans, gives you a tremendous feeling of confidence and personal power.Its very paramount to plan, don't be to lazy to plan,always make out time to plan.Wealth is more often the result of a lifestyle of hard work, perseverance, planning, and most of all self-discipline.

All you need is the PLAN, the roadmap , confidence and the courage to press on to your destination.

. “If you don’t have a plan, you become part of somebody else’s plan.

HOPE YOU ARE FULLY INSPIRED BY THIS WORDS..

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PERSONAL TIME MANAGEMENT, A KEY TO A BETTER LIFE

Time Management is essentially the ability to organize and plan the time spent on activities in a day. The result of good personal time management is increased effectiveness and productivity in ones life. This obviously a key factor for a better life.

Have you ever thought why time waits for nobody  “I just lost an hour of my life and I will never get it back”? You probably did a lot of times. There are a lot of ‘time wasters’ in our daily  lives, which is why we need a way to manage our time better. Time Management is often associated with business, but you need this personal time management skill in every part of life. As an individual it is particularly important to possess personal time management skills to yield a better life and be successful.

Time management is basically about being focused. The Pareto Principle also known as the '80:20 Rule' states that 80% of efforts that are not time managed or unfocused generates only 20% of the desired output. However, 80% of the desired output can be generated using only 20% of a well time managed effort. Although the ratio '80:20' is only arbitrary, it is used to put emphasis on how much is lost or how much can be gained with time management.

Some people view time management as a list of rules that involves scheduling of appointments, goal settings, thorough planning, creating things to do lists and prioritizing. These are the core basics of time management that should be understood to develop an efficient personal time management skill. These basic skills can be fine tuned further to include the finer points of each skill that can give you that extra reserve to make the results you desire.

But there is more skills involved in time management than the core basics. Skills such as decision making, inherent abilities such as emotional intelligence and critical thinking are also essential to your personal growth. Personal time management involves everything you do. No matter how big and no matter how small, everything counts. Each new knowledge you acquire, each new advice you consider, each new skill you develop should be taken into cognisance. Having a balanced life-style should be the key result in having personal time management. This is the main aspect that many practitioners of personal time management fail to grasp.

Time management is about getting results, not about being busy. The six areas that personal time management seeks to improve in anyone's life are physical, intellectual, social, career, emotional and spiritual.

The physical aspect involves having a healthy body, less stress and fatigue.

The intellectual aspect involves learning and other mental growth activities.

The social aspect involves developing personal or intimate relations and being an active contributor to society.

The career aspect involves school and work.

The emotional aspect involves appropriate feelings and desires and manifesting them.

The spiritual aspect involves a personal quest for meaning.

Thoroughly planning and having a set of things to do list, for each of the key areas may not be very practical, but determining which area in your life is not being giving enough attention is part of time management.

Each area creates the whole you, if you are ignoring one area then you are ignoring an important part of yourself.

Personal time management should not be so daunting a task. It is a very sensible and reasonable approach in solving problems big or small. A great way of learning time management and improving your personal life is to follow several basic activities.

One of them is to review your goals whether it be immediate or long-term goals often. A way to do this is to keep a list that is always accessible to you.

Always determine which task is necessary or not necessary in achieving your goals and which activities are helping you maintain a balanced life style.

Each and everyone of us has a peek time and a time when we slow down, these are our natural cycles. We should be able to tell when to do the difficult tasks when we are the sharpest. Learning to say "No" and Heed it even if it involves saying the word to family or friends.

Pat yourself at the back or just reward yourself in any manner for an effective time management result.

Try and get the cooperation from people around you who are actually benefiting from your efforts of time management.

Don't procrastinate,attend to necessary things immediately.

Have a positive attitude and set yourself up for success.

Be realistic in your approach in achieving your goals.

Have a record or journal of all your activities as this will help you get things in their proper perspective.

These are the few steps you initially take in becoming a well rounded individual. As the say personal time management is the art and science of building a better life. From the moment you integrate into your life time management skills, you have opened several options that can provide a broad spectrum of solutions to your personal growth and also creates more doors for opportunities to knock on. 

Finally, in your personal doings always remain focused and devoid of distractions, prioritize your tasks with most important first, place your schedule rightly and track your time accurately..

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MOTIVATION FOR SELF IMPROVEMENT

MOTIVATION, THE HEART OF SELF IMPROVEMENT

Pain may sometimes be the reason why people change. Getting flunked grades make us realize that we need to study. Debts remind us of our inability to look for a source of income. Being humiliated gives us the effentery to speak up and fight for ourselves to save our face from the next embarrassments. It may be a bitter experience, a friend's tragic story, a great movie, or an inspiring book that will help us get up and get just the right amount of motivation we need in order to improve ourselves. With the countless negativities the world brings about, how do we keep motivated?

The outlined, well alphabetically articulated tips for your intellectual consumption will be of great value. Kindly go through gradually and absorb completely without leaving any of them inculcated.

A- Achieve your dreams. Avoid negative people, things and places. Eleanor Roosevelt once said, ìthe future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

B - Believe in your self, and in what you can do.

C - Consider things on every angle and aspect. Motivation comes from determination. To be able to understand life, you should feel the sun from both sides.

D - Don't give up and donít give in. Thomas Edison failed once, twice, more than thrice before he came up with his invention and perfected the incandescent light bulb. Make motivation as your steering wheel.

E - Enjoy yourself. Work as if you don't need money. Dance as if nobody is watching you. Love as if you never cried. Learn as if you'll live forever. Motivation takes place when people are happy.

F - Family and Friends are life's greatest treasures. Don't loose sight of them.

G - Give more than what is enough. Where does motivation and self improvement take place at work? At home? At school? When you exert extra effort in doing things.

H - Hang on to your dreams. They may dangle in there for a moment, but these little stars will be your driving force.

I -  Ignore those who try to destroy you. Don't let other people to get the best of you. Stay out of toxic people and the kind of friends who hates to hear about your success.

J - Just be yourself. The key to success is to be yourself. And the key to failure is to try to please everyone.Be the best version of yourself.

K - keep trying no matter how hard life may seem. When a person is motivated, eventually he sees a harsh life finally clearing out, paving the way to self improvement.

L - Learn to love your self. It creates an internal platform for you as an individual for your self improvement and development.

M - Make things happen. Motivation is when your dreams are put into work clothes.

N - Never lie, cheat or steal. Always play a fair game.

O - Open your eyes.Just like the horse, learn the horse attitude and horse sense.Always see things in 2 ways ; how you want things to be, and how you should be.

P - Practice makes perfect. Practice is about motivation. It lets us learn repertoire and ways on how can we recover from our mistakes.

Q - Quitters never win and winners never quit. So, choose your fate like,  are you going to be a quitter? Or a winner?

R - Ready yourself. Motivation is also about preparation. We must hear the little voice within us telling us to get started before others will get on their feet and try to push us around. Remember, it wasn't raining when Noah build the ark.

S - Stop procrastinating. It does you more harm than good as you are prone to lack of self improvement and optimal development.

T -Take control of your life. Discipline or self control lives synonymously with motivation. Both are key factors in self improvement.

U - Understand others. If you know very well how to talk, you should also learn how to listen. Yearn to understand first, and to be understood the second.

V - Visualize it. Motivation without vision is like a boat on a dry land.

W - Want it more than anything. Dreaming means believing. And to believe is something that is rooted out from the roots of motivation and self improvement.

X - X Factor is what will make you different from the others. When you are motivated, you tend to put on extraordinary effort on your life like extra time for family, extra help at work, extra care for friends, and so on. The extra you do from the ordinary makes you extraordinary, being extraordinary makes you outstanding.

Y - You are unique. No one in this world looks, acts, or talks like you. Value your life and existence, because youíre just going to spend it once.You are a genius, with unique and peculiar asset in you as an individual, 

Always see yourself the only person that can be you because your real you lies in you.

Z - Zero in on your dreams and go for it!!! 

  

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RETAINING SELF HAPPINESS

Genuine Happiness Comes from Within

Life the say is never a bed of rose neither i s it the sweetest candy. Sometimes, when U feel like the world is just too heavy, You look around and find people who continued to live fascinating and wonderful lives. And then thoughts come popping into your mind like bubbles from nowhere "How did their life become so adorably sweet? How come they still can manage to laugh and play around despite a busy stressful life? Then You pause and observed for a while, You just cant figure it out.I've come to let you let understand that HAPPINESS can only  come when you start to work on a place called YOURSELF

So, how does one become genuinely happy?  The first step is to learn to LOVE yourself. Love yourself by thyself

How is this possibile ? "loving means accepting". love oneself means to accept that you are not a perfect being, but behind the imperfections must lie a great ounce of courage to be able to discover ways on how to improve your repertoire to recover from our mistakes.This is a rudiment you must surely take to cognizance in order to keep your life in a sound happiness.

Genuine happiness also pertains to contentment. When you are contented with the job you have, the way you look, with your family, your friends, the place you live in and all the things you have now. Truly you will surely derived joy that will strengthen your life.

When we discover a small start somewhere from within, that small start will eventually lead to something else, and to something else. But if you keep questioning life as if it has never done you any good, you will never be able to find genuine happiness.

I believe that life is about finding out about right and wrong, trying and failing, wining and losing. These are things that happen as often as you inhale and exhale. Failure, in one's life has become as abundant and necessary as air. But this should not hinder us from becoming happy. In spite of  all these, you can still be genuinely happy.

Every time you exert effort to improve the quality of life and your being, whether it is cleaning up your room, helping a friend, taking care of your sick dog, fail on board exams and trying again, life will always gives you equivalent points for that.

Imagine life as a big score board,your life is your own dashboard. Every time you take a step forward, you make scoring points. It will be nice to look at that board at the end of each effort  and endeavour you make, then  tell yourself "I got a point today, am glad I gave it a shot " instead of looking at it all blank and murmur in a demoralized manner " I didnt even hit a score today. I wish I had the guts to try out. I shouldn't have tried, would have just walk away.

Genuine happiness isn't about driving the hottest  luxurious automobile nor getting the employee of the year award, earning the highest pay, or beating the sales quota. Sometimes, the most sought after prizes in life doesn't always go to the fastest, the strongest, the bravest or not even the best. So, how do you become genuinely happy? Every one has his own definition of happiness . Happiness for a writer may mean launching as much best selling books as possible. Happiness for a basketball rookie may mean getting the rookie of the year award. Happiness for a beggar may mean a lot of money. Happiness for a business man may mean success. So, really now, how do we become genuinely happy? Simple. You dont have to have the best things in this world. Its about doing and making the best out of every single thing. When you find yourself smiling at your own mistake and telling your self Oh !, I'll do better next time,you carry with you a flame of strong will power to persevere that may spread out like a brush fire. You possess a willingness to stand up again and try  that will make you a genuinely happy person.

When you learn to accept yourself and your own faults. You pass the first step  in the project of how to become genuinely happy.For as long as you know how to accept others, you will also be accepted. For as long as you love and know how to love, you will receive love in ten folds back.

Again, throw me that same question ìhow to become genuinely happy? I'll refer you to this strong quote saying "laughter is the best medicine of life ache and pains"

What most of us don't know is that the best kind of laughter is the laughter over self cos then you don't just become genuinely happy, you become FREE !

 

TRUST THIS MISSIVE MEETS YOU WELL, HAVE A SPLENDID WEEK !

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YOUR PERSPECTIVE FOR EXCELLENCE

"God bless your time as you meditate in this article, let the missive be well inculcated to your mind" Stay cool, relax and maintain your focus.

The word "perspective" implies a mental vision or an outlook visualization of an in depth mind picture. As it is often said " you can only feature in your desired future if you first picture it yourself"and then walk in the right track towards achieving that which you have pictured in your mind. No action takes place without been first pictured in the mind scope. Your ability to tap into the power of holding a vivid powerful image about the star in you defines your path way to excellence.This is a strong hold that incorporates and connects the power of imagery to reinforce in your mind how exactly you envision a successful outcome before you achieve it in reality. This visualization is something you have used since childhood to create circumstances of your own life,it burns through your mind just like a fire of passion, movies and pictures of the inner mind.

Each of us stores pictures in our minds about the type of relationships we deserve, the degree of success we'll attain at work, the extent of our leadership ability, the amount of money we'll earn and accumulate, and so on.
Where do these pictures come from?  Well, we begin to develop our "mental movies" early in life.  If we were criticized or felt unworthy as a youngster, we record the events (and the feelings associated with those events) as images in our minds.  Because we frequently dwell on these pictures (both consciously and subconsciously), we tend to create life situations that correspond to the original image.  For example, you may still hold a vibrant image of being criticized by a teacher in elementary school.  You felt humiliated in front of the whole class.  Later on, when you were tempted to offer your opinion in school or in a group of people, you held back and kept quiet all the while remembering (even if only on a subconscious level) how painful it was when you were criticized.  The picture remains in your mind, and exerts tremendous influence over your present actions.
Unfortunately, many of us have not updated or revised our childhood movies, so we are continually producing results that fall short of our full potential.  Here are some techniques for using the power of visualization to improve virtually every aspect of your personal and professional life:

1. Take responsibility for the pictures you are playing in your mind. No matter what the source of those images, it's you that keeps playing them. Let's try a short experiment.  Think about an ice cream cone filled with your favorite flavor of ice cream.  Does that create a picture or image for you?  I'll bet it does.  Okay, now think about an elephant.  Can you see it?  Change the color of the elephant to pink.  In a fraction of a second, you probably formed an image of the pink elephant.  Can you bring back the picture of the ice cream cone?  Of course, you can.  You have full control over the pictures that occupy your mind.  However, when you do not consciously decide which pictures to play, your mind will look into the "archives" and keep re-playing old movies on file in your mental library.
2. Accept what happened in the old movie - but change its meaning. It doesn't serve you to deny what happened in a past experience, no matter how painful or disappointing.  You can't, for instance, change the fact that you were criticized by the teacher.  You can, however, alter your interpretation of the event.  That is, at the time you were originally criticized, the meaning you might have assigned to the experience was:  "I'm not good enough," or "My opinions are worthless."  While this was the interpretation of a child, you may have inadvertently carried it into your adult life.  Today, though, you canconsciously choose to view the situation differently -- for example, the teacher may have disagreed with you, but it wasn't a statement about your intelligence or your overall worth as a person!
3. Create new pictures to move you toward what you want.  We can create new mental movies whenever we choose to do so.  And, when we develop (and concentrate on) new images that evoke powerful feelings and sensations, we will act in ways that support those new pictures!  So, the first step is to create an image of your desired outcome.  You are limited only by your imagination.  Recognize, however, that the pictures in your mind are not fulfilled overnight!  But, by being patient and by persistently focusing on these mental images, you'll automatically start acting in ways that support your vision.
4. Relax and involve your senses. What's the best method to use when concentrating on your new images?  It's been proven that your mind is most receptive to visualization when you are calm and not thinking about a lot of things simultaneously.  So, sit down in a comfortable chair at home, close your eyes and do some deep breathing exercises to clear your mind and relax your body.  Now, strive to develop images that involve as many senses as you can.  The more sights, sounds, smells, tastes and touches you put in your pictures, the more powerful the "pull" for you to make your vision a reality.

Lets assume you always dreamed of owning a beach-front house in the Caribbean.  Picture the white and peach colored house.  See the green palm trees slowly swaying in the gentle breeze.  Smell the salt air.  Feel the warm sand between you toes.  Can't you just taste it?  And all this can be yours, if you hold onto this image and do what it takes to achieve it

Also, remember that those images associated with strong emotions have even more power, so be sure to add positive feelings to your vision.  For instance, when visualizing your ideal job, combine the vivid mental picture and the physical senses with the terrific emotions of pride and satisfaction you'll have working in that new position.
 Don't be concerned with the quality of your images at the outset. Some people can create lively color pictures. . . while others have trouble getting anything more than a fuzzy image, or no image at all.  It's also possible that you may only be able to get a particular feeling at the beginning as opposed to a clear image.
In any case, don't worry about it.  Do the best you can and don't compare yourself to anyone else.  Your images will become sharper over time.  The key is to spend several minutes each day running these new movies in your mind.

Well, there you have it--some suggestions for creating and benefiting from your own mental pictures.  Remember, if you don't take control and develop your own movies, you'll continue to replay the old ones.  If the old movies are serving you, that's great.  But, if they're holding you back in any way, get started today and use the incredible power of your mind to picture your way to greater success!

The greatest threats of not maintaining a clearer perspective of excellence in life is being overly negative and pessimistic. We love over-criticizing everything, having no hope for beautiful things and losing fond admiration for the silly, whimsical aspects of life. It’s an attitude that I believe is corrupting our capability to strive for greatness in our lives.

Truth is, if you want to be great in this life, you have to model that greatness in your thinking.

You have to open your eyes up to the beauty in front of you and celebrate it. Only then will we be in the right mindset to enact change in our culture of negative and shallow mindset.

TIPS TO MAINTAIN AN IDYLLIC PERSPECTIVE FOR EXCELLENCE IN YOUR LIFE.

Happiness is often a choice, so choose wisely. When life comes and sweeps you off your feet, you have the choice to remain on the ground where people will coddle you or get up so people will be inspired by you. It’s not easy, but change never is.

Complaining makes us complacent. It might make you feel better, but it’ll do so at the cost of doing something to change the situation.

The major cause of death for passion is envy. You get nowhere constantly comparing yourself to other, more successful people. Use that time instead to cultivate your passion into something world-changing.

 Life is sweeter when you celebrate little victories. Did you pay off a tiny debt? Did you finish a project that took you forever? Before diving into the next thing, take a moment to have a little victory party with your love ones. Always remain grateful for any level of accomplishments. It keeps in shape for more greater achievement.

The past only matters in how you redeem it. It doesn’t define you, imprison you or hold you back from anything. Learn to move on and change the circumstances, and life will be more hopeful.

 Be quick to forgive others, not blame others. Instead of looking to justify ourselves when situations arise, search for the greater peace that could be had. Accept responsibility if that’s what needs to happen, and move on to correct the situation.

Latch onto hope anywhere you can find it. Be ready to embrace something outside yourself, because when life comes crashing down on you, you’ll need something to bring you back to the surface. See your every challenge in your life as an opportunity to step up for greater heights.

Conclusively, don’t let your happiness depend on something you may lose.” Make sure your hope is an anchor, not a ship sailing away, and I promise, your perspective on life will be better because of it.

Remember, in life you can only feature in that future you visualize when you can picture it yourself in a vivid perspective that links you to excellence.

Thank you for being patient in reading through this article, REMAIN BLESSED IN BOUNTIES....

     

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THe MYSTERY OF FAILURE & MISTAKES

This sense of shame combined with the inevitability of setbacks when attempting difficult things explains why many people give up on their goals: they're not prepared for the mistakes and failures they'll face on their way to what they want. What's missing in many people's beliefs about success is the fact that the more challenging the goal, the more frequent and difficult setbacks will be. The larger your ambitions, the more dependent you will be on your ability to overcome and learn from your mistakes.

The only person who never makes a mistake is the man who never does anything.
It may seems odd to think about mistakes at a time because everyone seems to be busy making plans for success but its actually all part of the same process.

Making mistakes and experiencing setbacks is part of the making process of every successful achiever so you are no exception.
Anyone that tells you they don't make mistakes has just made one.

Every successful person must have in one way or the other gone things wrong over and over again before finding the right solution.

In the words of Thomas Edison, I quote " I have not failed, I have just found many ways that won't work".In other words your mistakes takes you step further to be wiser than you have been. It is a crucial step in learning, growing, developing and improving yourself.

What is the difference between champions and the average person?
The simple difference between champion achievers and average people is their ability to handle rejection and failure.

You can't travel the road to success without a puncture or two, trial, hurdles and challenges. Mistakes are often the best teachers, but when you make mistake and fail,endeavor to pick something up.
A mistake-riddled life is much richer,more interesting and more simulating than the life that has never risked or taken a stand on anything.

People are not remember by how many times the fail but by how often they succeed.
Do not fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things.
Always look at what you have left and never look at what you have lost.

Until you experience, remember, track or retain the mysteries of mistakes as feature of our inner landscape, failure will always seem to come at you from the left field.

Learning from mistakes requires three things:

**Putting yourself in situations where you can make interesting mistakes.
**Having the self-confidence to admit to them.
**Being courageous about making changes.

It doesn't matter how many times you made mistakes nor how many times you may have failed, always know that there is a something to pickup when you fail.
That which you can foresee will be a boast to your success..

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